Do you set goals?  Have you ever used goal setting strategies to help you set your goals?  Have you ever had a serious goal in your mind and your family or other people close to you in your life told you it could not be done? 

Maybe they just laughed when you talked about your goal.  There are always those “good friends” or family that are going to be jealous of you setting goals. 

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Or maybe they just aren’t positive people and want to keep you down on their level.  They aren’t about to change their situation for the better, and don’t want you to either.

Carolyn Ellis gives you three goal setting strategies that can help keep you focused on achieving your goal.

Mission Possible: 3 Keys to Achieving Your Goals Despite the Odds by Carolyn Ellis

Have you ever been told that what you want is impossible to have?

You have a goal or a dream, but those around you – family, friends, experts – tell you that it can’t be done.

If you’ve ever built a campfire, that initial phase of having the spark hit the dry kindling is critical.  You need to get more wood to help build the fire so it can get to a critical mass of its own rather than sputter out and die.  When an idea catches fire within you, it’s important that you take the right action quickly so you can keep it alive and make it happen.

Deciding to start your business is a spark of an inspiration.  But you need the right kindling of where to find the perfect clients and what programs to offer them to stay in business.  Being in an intimate relationship with another starts with those initial sparks, but it needs tending and fuel so it can last for the long run.

When you make a decision, particularly those where you feel you are answering a deep calling of your soul, it can initially feel like you’ve signed on for an episode of Mission Impossible. But when you apply these 3 success principles, you can turn that around into achieving your goal despite the odds.

When I recently decided it was time to release my home for a new family to enjoy, I wanted to be able to take advantage of a strong selling market.  But I was still in the process of a serious renovation in my basement and walking into an almost-ready home doesn’t make a great impression on potential buyers.

My main contractor thought my time frames were way too tight (they were) and that my request he, his equipment and his team be off the property in such a short time frame was an impossible task.  But I wasn’t prepared to settle for a “No.”  I made 3 critical choices that helped me get the job done – and you can apply them yourself to any goal you have.

Key #1 – Use Your Vision as Your Anchor

Throughout the renovation process, I held a strong and steady vision of what I wanted and why.  I kept visualizing my home as inviting, gracious and ready to be a place of love for a new family.  Keeping sight of why I was subjecting myself and my family to this disruption allowed me to keep steady and relatively calm during the ups and downs of the renovation.

Key #2 – Do Whatever It Takes

I am a firm believer in delegation, but to get what you want in the face of the odds being against you, you need to do whatever it takes.  As we progressed in the renovation, I could see places that needed shoring up so my goal of having the house ready for public viewing happen.

I did whatever it took.  When the walkway needed power washing before the real estate agent had the house photos taken, I was out there at 6:30 am with a contractor sweeping and handling the power washer myself.  To make things smoother for the crew in the morning, I would get the shop vac out to keep the site clean even if it was 11:30 pm.

Here’s the beautiful thing about being willing to get your hands dirty and doing whatever it takes.  Not only did it help get the job done, it inspired and motivated the great crew of workers I had to do the same.

Key #3 – Keep A Light Heart

When the going gets tough, it’s easy to get discouraged and frustrated.  When your goal and vision come from a deep place within your heart, it is tempting to take setbacks personally.  But anger, sarcasm and blame are like throwing a bucket of water on the bonfire you’re trying to build.

 Keep a light heart and instead find the humor in those trying moments.  Choose to be compassionate with yourself and others instead of condemning.

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Hope you liked these goal setting strategies.  Carolyn Ellis has Thrive After Divorce and writes about success strategies for separated and divorced individuals.

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